How to go from dating to boyfriend
" Oddly enough, after viewing some of the discussion on the comment thread, I realized that my judgment might have been a little harsh.I'm not trying to generalize, but most of my female friends talk about past boyfriends, dissecting why their relationships didn't work.Being betrayed by two people you care about has to be one of the worst feelings ever, especially when things are done in an underhanded and sneaky way.
Even if you're no longer with the person who you once thought to be the love of your life, how could you stomach that person being with your friend?From "he just doesn't get me" to "we're too different" to "why did we stay together THAT long," women tend to overanalyze past relationships.However, the one thing that seems to be the unwritten rule among us is that we would never even consider dating our friends' exes. But now I realize this rule really needs more thought, because I believe there are two factors to consider before answering my girlfriend's Facebook question."Once loved" are the operative words here Too often, women become territorial, trying to mark our men as if past loves are actually possessions that we own for life.If you have moved on from this person, you really should not take issue with who they are with now.